Blame-free Learning Mindset...
Regardless of what ecosystem we find ourselves, whether it is at work, home, in the gym or on the sports field, it is not the action or event that determines what happens or how we and others respond - it is our mindset.
IT WAS SUCH A RELIEF TO FIND OUT DENIS WASN’T TEACHING US TO USE POSITIVE THINKING OR FOLLOW THE LAW OF ATTRACTION!
Our mindset contains known and unknown beliefs as well the morals we have inherited and the values we have grown, all of which form our perception of the world. The overriding mindset that is being taught today is one focused on fear, blame and avoidance.. The popular solution is to have a positive mental attitude. As logical as this can seem, it is not a sustainable strategy. The energy required to keep this coping mechanism active is finite and as such there is a toll on our mind and body.
There is an alternative strategy, one that produces profound and sustainable results for our mind, body and life situations. It is what I am referring to as a blame-free learning mindset…
Question the unquestionable
I believe one of the reasons I am able to help people where others haven’t been able to, is because I have spent many years questioning what is deemed unquestionable. I made it a point to question what I had been told is ‘truth’ by all sections of the self-help, philosophical, business and spiritual world. I distilled what I have learnt into a philosophy that plays into the paradox that the universe in which we live is infinitely complex and magically simple. It is complex due to the vast amount of theories and magically simple when we understand the impact blame has on our lives.
This does not mean what I am offering is the ‘truth’ it is an interpretation of what has been on offer. An interpretation that I believe has not been offered to the world before. This is indeed a bold statement. One that I am confident will be acknowledged by anyone who decides to experience what I have to offer.
I have many individual success stories over the last decade. During the last four years, our company RoundTable Global is testament to how transferable these philosophies are to the corporate world.
Fear and blame-based cultures
We have inherited a mindset that is fear and blame-based, which has created fear and blame-based cultures in our homes, offices and sporting environments. Fear and our subconscious are often grouped together, in a way that attracts a similar approach - they are here to hold us back and self-sabotage us, so we must control and conquer them! They have been demonised as things that get in the way of our success and happiness. It is because of this misconception that many people experience physical and emotional pain rather than the peace and fulfilment that is available to us all.